Friday , April 20 2018

SELF- JUDGMENT :Tag

PERFECTIONISM IS THE SNEAKY NAME FOR SELF- JUDGMENT

PERFECTIONISM IS THE SNEAKY NAME FOR SELF- JUDGMENT

Perfectionism sounds on the surface like a good thing, but it is sneaky. After all, perfectionism is a strategy for success, but success is out of reach when you measure it by your ability to be perfect all the time. Sooner or later, perfectionism does the opposite of what it is intended to do. If you look closely you will find that perfectionism is just another name for self- judgment. In seeking to be perfect, we get self- critical every time we fall short and we become our own worst enemies. Because good is not good enough, we never meet our own standards of perfection. We believe we must rise up to this unrealistic perfect so that we can succeed, …

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