Sunday , February 25 2018

PERFECTIONISM :Tag

PERFECTIONISM IS THE SNEAKY NAME FOR SELF- JUDGMENT

PERFECTIONISM IS THE SNEAKY NAME FOR SELF- JUDGMENT

Perfectionism sounds on the surface like a good thing, but it is sneaky. After all, perfectionism is a strategy for success, but success is out of reach when you measure it by your ability to be perfect all the time. Sooner or later, perfectionism does the opposite of what it is intended to do. If you look closely you will find that perfectionism is just another name for self- judgment. In seeking to be perfect, we get self- critical every time we fall short and we become our own worst enemies. Because good is not good enough, we never meet our own standards of perfection. We believe we must rise up to this unrealistic perfect so that we can succeed, …

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PERFECTIONISM & HOW TO CURE IT

MORE ABOUT PERFECTIONISM & HOW TO CURE IT

We limit our creativity and suppress what could have been a brilliant work, when we consider anything less than perfect is not worthwhile. You will never publish that book or frame that painting if you are waiting to produce perfection. Perfection is subjective; what is perfect to someone is far from perfect to another. This is clear when it comes to physical beauty; too thin can be the perfect body in one culture, while a more rounded physique in other cultures is most desirable. When you look closer, you will find that perfectionism is connected to self- worth; seeking perfection makes attainment of self- worth never comes because the self- imposed conditions are usually too high. Even if you managed …

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