Have you every wondered whether you are raising your child right or not? Were you ever confronted by people who say that you are spoiling your child and wondered if there was any truth to what they say? Here is your answer; the signs that tell you your child is spoiled.
1- The other side is always greener for them. In other words, what others have is and will always be better in their eyes. It does not matter what you get them because they will always be unsatisfied with it.
2- He does not like to help. Well, it is to be expected that a child or even a teenager would not like to help. However, your child should be willing to do small tasks like gathering his toys or putting his pens and pencils away. A spoiled child, however, does not help and is not even willing to under any circumstances.
3- He tends to throw tantrums quite often. Facing a tantrum from a spoiled child is something that happens on a daily basis. For a spoiled child, tantrums are just a tool for achieving what he/she wants.
4- He does not share things nor is he even willing to under pressure. For a spoiled child, sharing is not in the dictionary. Even if the particular toy which is to be shared is something he doesn’t want or even had tossed away the other day.
5- He makes a habit of embarrassing you in public. This is also another tool
for controlling you and gaining what he wants. If you are shopping and you find that your child is screaming at the top of his lungs because you didn’t get him a certain toy, then he is most certainly spoiled.
You should look for ways to un-spoil your child as soon as you are certain that he is spoiled. Being spoiled means a life of difficulties in the future for him and those around him.